For buyers

How to buy a home in the United States

The process is the same in every state, even though the paperwork and the customs differ. Here is the full sequence, what each stage costs, and where buyers most often lose money.

6.4%
Average down payment, first-time buyers
2–5%
Typical buyer closing costs
41 days
Median days from list to contract
30–45
Days from contract to closing

The process

Seven stages, in order

Get your finances in order

Pull your credit reports from all three bureaus at AnnualCreditReport.com, pay down revolving balances, and avoid opening new accounts. Lenders look hardest at your credit score, your debt-to-income ratio and your documented reserves.

Get pre-approved, not pre-qualified

A pre-qualification is an estimate. A pre-approval means a lender has pulled your credit and reviewed your income documents, and it carries real weight with sellers. Apply with two or three lenders within a 45-day window so the credit pulls count as one inquiry.

Choose a buyer's agent

Interview at least two. Ask how many transactions they closed in your target area last year, how they handle multiple-offer situations, and exactly how they are compensated. Get the representation agreement in writing before you tour.

Search and tour with intent

Narrow to a handful of neighborhoods and visit at different times of day. Check commute times yourself during rush hour, and look at the roof, the electrical panel and signs of water intrusion rather than the staging.

Make a disciplined offer

Your agent should bring you comparable sales from the last 90 days. Decide your walk-away number before you write, and understand which contingencies — inspection, appraisal, financing — you are keeping.

Inspect, appraise, and renegotiate

Always get an independent inspection, and attend it if you can. Use the findings to negotiate repairs or credits. If the appraisal comes in below contract price, you have leverage to renegotiate or walk, depending on your contingency.

Close and record

Review your Closing Disclosure against the Loan Estimate at least three business days before closing and question every changed line. Do a final walkthrough the day before, then sign, fund, and take the keys once the deed records.

Closing costs

What you actually pay at the table

Buyer closing costs typically run 2% to 5% of the purchase price, separate from your down payment. Every figure below appears on your Closing Disclosure.

Typical US buyer closing costs
CostTypical rangeWhat it covers
Loan origination0.5% – 1% of loanLender's charge for processing the loan.
Appraisal$500 – $800Independent valuation required by the lender.
Home inspection$350 – $700Optional but strongly recommended; paid up front.
Title insurance0.5% – 1% of priceProtects against defects in the chain of title.
Escrow / settlement$400 – $1,200Fee for the closing agent handling the funds.
Recording fees$50 – $250County charge to record the new deed.
Prepaid taxes & insurance2 – 6 monthsFunds the initial escrow account.
Transfer taxesVaries by stateState or local tax on the transfer of title.

The three-day rule protects you. Your lender must deliver the Closing Disclosure at least three business days before closing. Compare it against your Loan Estimate line by line — some charges legally cannot increase, and others only within a 10% tolerance. See every line explained.

First-time buyers

Assistance programs most buyers never hear about

Every state operates a housing finance agency, and most offer down payment assistance as grants, forgivable loans or deferred second mortgages. Many cities and counties stack additional programs on top.

  • State housing finance agency loans — below-market rates paired with down payment help
  • Down payment assistance grants — often 3% to 5% of the purchase price
  • Mortgage Credit Certificates — a federal tax credit on a portion of your mortgage interest
  • Good Neighbor Next Door — HUD discounts for teachers, firefighters, EMTs and law enforcement
  • Employer-assisted housing — hospitals, universities and municipalities sometimes contribute

Eligibility usually depends on household income, purchase price limits and completing a HUD-approved homebuyer education course. Ask lenders directly which programs they are approved to originate — not all of them are.

A first home on a quiet American street

Avoid these

Five mistakes that cost buyers real money

Every one of these is common, and every one is preventable.

Waiving the inspection

A $450 inspection routinely finds five-figure problems. Shorten the window instead of removing it.

Shopping one lender

Rates and fees vary materially between lenders. Three Loan Estimates inside 45 days count as one credit inquiry.

Draining every reserve

Keep three to six months of housing payments after closing. Water heaters fail in month four.

Opening credit before closing

Financing furniture or a car between approval and closing can re-trigger underwriting and kill the loan.

Budgeting principal and interest only

Taxes, insurance, PMI and HOA dues often add 30% or more to the payment you were quoted.

Skipping the final walkthrough

It is your last chance to confirm agreed repairs were done and nothing was damaged during the move-out.

Buyer FAQ

Questions buyers ask us most

How much do I actually need for a down payment?

Less than most people assume. Conventional loans start at 3% for qualified buyers, FHA at 3.5%, and VA and USDA loans require nothing down for eligible borrowers. A 20% down payment avoids private mortgage insurance but is not a requirement to buy.

What credit score do I need?

Roughly 620 for most conventional loans and 580 for FHA with 3.5% down. Higher scores earn materially better interest rates — the gap between a 660 and a 760 score can cost tens of thousands of dollars over a 30-year loan.

How much are closing costs?

Typically 2% to 5% of the purchase price for a buyer, on top of the down payment. In some markets and some contracts the seller contributes toward them, which is a negotiable term.

Should I waive the inspection to win a bidding war?

We strongly advise against it. An inspection costs a few hundred dollars and routinely surfaces five-figure problems. If you need to strengthen an offer, consider a shorter inspection window or a repair-request threshold instead of waiving it entirely.

What happens if the appraisal comes in low?

Your lender will only finance against the appraised value, so you can renegotiate the price, bring the difference in cash, dispute the appraisal with new comparables, or terminate if you kept an appraisal contingency.

Start with a realistic number

Run your target price through a calculator that includes taxes, insurance, PMI and HOA dues, then get matched with an agent licensed in your state.